Posts by Marvin Shilmer

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

It's easy to say work with what you have when by birth in the country certain people get more.

I'm unsure who that statement is directed toward, but in response I'll say this: Life on earth has never been fair. Human society has never been fair. Life in the universe is not fair. If we are looking for fairness we're looking in the wrong place. Fairness is something we can do based on our own perception of fair. But others have different perceptions of what is fair, and yet others could not care less about whatever is or is not fair. That is the world we live in.

As humans the thing we can control most of all is our own actions. From there our control becomes less and less until, ultimately, there are things that are completely out of individual control. So working with what have is the thing we can most effectively pursue. That is the most pragmatic thing any human can and should realize, and act on. Parents who are not teaching their children that working hard and working smart presents the best opportunity to improve their personal life are doing a great disservice to those children. We can try to improve whatever government we can or choose to live under, but we cannot count on government for making our life successful. The one we have the most control over is our self, and that's what our children have to be raised to understand.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

Yet another amazing article on how the Government was the root of a lot of this mess.

We have essentially two choices with "the Government" in the USA.

1. Exercise individual liberty to vote, or

2. Find another government you like better and live there.

I don't know any other options. Do you?

In the meantime, if we're voting and if we've chosen to stay where we are, then we have to work with what we have the best we can. My opinion is that starts with parents teaching their children how to behave in society for their own sake, the local community's sake, and the sake of society as a whole. When parents don't do this things happen and sometimes the police are called to respond to an emergency. In those minutes of response no police officer is going to be able to bring our children up to speed on how to properly behave, and they are not going to try (or at least they shouldn't in those moments). Instead they are going to intervene to restore order. They are going to act to just STOP things where they are. Those law enforcement officers might be loud. They might use vulgar language. They might instruct completely innocent individuals to sit or lay down. They might handcuff some too, even if they have to exert force to do so. They will bark orders. They will finger point. They will assert themselves. And they should do any and all of this if that is what it takes to protect my or your child from harm if it's possible to do so. Oh, and we should applaud them for being willing to take and do this messy job in the moments they have to keep people safe.

Had my child been at the McKinney pool party and had she been the one behaving badly to the point where she was roughly subdued, and had this video been streaming live as it happened, I'd have been GLAD!!! Why? Because this parent would not have had to wonder if my child was okay. I'd know that though I'd failed to teach her proper conduct that nevertheless she was alive, not to mention healthy enough to resist a full-grown policeman. Let me be perfectly honest and say I'd not like to see my child getting handled roughly by police. But I would have been one of the few parents who knew my child was okay despite the melee. I also hope that I would have the courage to resist attempts by lawyers to collect a payday by filing suit against the city alleging police brutality. I hope I would have the courage to look myself in the mirror and ask where I want wrong teaching my child that it was okay to act so stupidly and so disrespectfully to people I help pay to enforce law and order.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

...And [name your fool] will feel justified and do it again.

It's a bane of our society. We justify the unjustifiable and expect things to get better.

You can't fix stupid. You just have to stop it. And who do we call to stop it? The police of course. After all, that's what we pay them for. Right? Only too often we expect them to babysit little Jacky and Johnny when public safety requires restoring order first. What happens when police let themselves become babysitters in the face of an unruly crowd with violence reported? On the periphery of the scene someone ends up getting beaten, stabbed or shot because the police were holding some whinny crybaby's hand rather than restoring order. Then what happens? We have a grieving family because someone got seriously injured.

Don't call the police and expect them to be babysitters. When police find themselves called to an unruly scene where violence is reported they will immediately begin to restore order, or at least that's what they should do. If it takes the foulest of language to do so, I don't care personally. Even if it takes upsetting some gal in a bikini who does not want to lie face down. Again, I don't care personally. I don't want my child to be beaten, stabbed or shot because a police officer was holding some crybaby's hand rather than diligently attempting to restore order to an unruly crowd with reported violence. Frankly, I'd rather my child be the one handcuffed and laying flat on her face crying her eyes out. At least then I'd know she's not the one getting shot or stabbed behind cars or shrubs by some emotional person trying to settle some petty score.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

Marvin can you weigh-in on the little bitch. Is she indeed a little bitch?

I'm not sure who you're asking me to comment on. Is it the bikini clad gal who failed to follow reasonable instruction over and over again to leave, and then when she did basically leave turned around and started walking right back to where she had been told to leave from? I think she's a misguided, self-centered brat who, probably for the first time in her life, met the cold hard reality that actions bring consequences and that police officers are not her babysitters.

Can you weigh in on the adult woman punching the child in the head when she wasn't involved in the fight instead of just pulling the big gal off the little gal like the two boys did?

I don't know what you're talking about. My observations in this discussion have been about the absolute sorry state of unruliness that we expect our police officers to intervene in, restore order and protect safety. If you're talking about the video of a fight that occurred prior to the police I haven't given it a lot of attention. I watched it a couple times and came away with the same impression each time, that it's just another incident of people not being able to contain themselves when they have only themselves to supervise. When these things happen my view is that both sides carry culpability, though perhaps not equal culpability. Fights like this are stupid. I have no idea who started what and don't really care.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

Police officers are not baby sitters. They are called to a scene like this to intervene, restore order and protect public safety.

In this incident police were called to a scene, and then more police were called to the scene, and then more police were called to the scene. This could easily have escalated and folks could have been seriously injured, not because of police but because of why the police were called, and then more called, and then more called for after that. I don't think most here have the foggiest idea what it is like to be essentially parachuted in to a scene where you're surrounded by folks that include some obnoxious self-centered individuals, reported violence, and with no idea who's packing a weapon. Oh, and their job is to restore order and protect life.

Then we have a gal prancing around, being mouthy, failing repeatedly to follow the simplest of instruction to leave, then when she does basically leave she TURNS AROUND and starts walking right back! And it does not stop there. Now the officer she's defying attempts to detain her and what does she do? She resists. She does not sit down on her own. She does not roll over face down on her own. No. This poor gal had never been taught that in real life SHE is not the center of the universe and actions will have consequences.

What I saw in the McKinney pool party video is a clash of expectations. Police expected to have reasonable instructions obeyed. Teenage brats expected the police to respond just like their parents when reasonable instructions are disobeyed; nothing. The teenagers were wrong. The police are not their baby sitters like momma and daddy are. Parents of the unruly children should be holding their heads in shame, but more than likely will be interviewing lawyers to see which one can garner the biggest payday for them.

I think every police officer on that scene deserves a commendation, if for no other reason being willing to respond to sorry crap like this when we call them. Children of these police officers should hold their heads high, knowing their parents are willing to step up when called to do so. Oh, and it's not for a whole lot of money either that they do this.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

By the way do you and Martin also consider the young 14 year old a THUG/CRIMINAL/ASSHOLE?

Oh. Great. Another assertion in need of proof.

And, in case you're interested in my view, anyone who is an asshole and breaks the law should expect to be treated badly by police as a law breaking asshole.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

Marvin, I click your name and boom.

Sorry. That does not prove your assertion of me true.

My posting history is there for anyone who wants to read it. But your assertion of me that I asked you to prove true is not about my posting history. Right?

Are you content to keep up your attempt at moving the goal post?

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

I can make any assertion I want. YOU can't do anything about.

Of course you can make any assertion you want. Oh, and I can do something about it. I can ask that you prove your assertion true. I've done that in this discussion with one of your assertions. You could not prove your assertion true. So you made up some obfuscation instead.

Why not lash out at some of the assertions that people made in this thread? Because if you did you would be warring with daddy. You don't want that.

I don't know exactly who or what you're talking about, perhaps Simon. I don't know. In various ways in this discussion I have asked various participants to evidence claims they've made. Some have ponied up and some have not been able to. In most cases things boil down to disagreement about how different participants perceive behaviors at issue in the McKinney incident, and I'm completely okay with that and take no exception to it. But then we have someone like you that takes it upon himself to lay a specific accusation onto someone (me in this case) that is patently false and when asked to prove it and finding you can't you spew ad hominem. I hope it makes you feel better, but it is nonsense nevertheless.

As for Simon, he and I are not exactly buddies. When we disagree I don't hold back my view. Does that align with your latest innuendo of my person? Maybe you should do a little more research on that one.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

COPS is a horrible basis to use for anything.

Not when it contradicts the very thing suggested in full living color. Otherwise I wholly agree with you. Perhaps the person who said what they said should have spoken more precisely.

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McKinney Texas pool party?

by Marvin Shilmer in

so today i was asked my thoughts on the pool party incident in mcminney, texas.

my response: it shows a clash of expectations.

i saw police officers who expected citizens to listen to and follow instructions.

Marvin Shilmer

Marvin, let me restate that. You started this thread with the hopes it would go where you wanted it to go. The other two people just took it there. That is your Mode of Operation.

That is the kind of complete nonsense I hate in Watchtower and when I see it in others I call them out for it too!

I started this thread to have a decent adult discussion of a current news item. I did not start this thread to suggest anything about race. But then you come along and sling an accusation on my person asserting that I brought a racial element into this.

So what do you do when asked to prove what you say? You make up crap like the above suggesting, basically, NOTHING, except a negative innuendo of a supposed MO. People who make assertions have a burden to prove those assertions true, not to spew ambiguity and innuendo.